Christian Therapy

Does God Seem Distant No Matter How Much You Reach Out?

Despite sincere prayers and supplications, does it feel like His silence is louder than any response you receive? Do you ever read Scripture or hear a sermon and find yourself more confused than comforted?

Perhaps you have questions that feel too heavy to speak aloud—about global suffering, the state of our society, or whether the “good guys” are even winning anymore.

Or maybe you’re considering Christian counseling because intellectual doubts, the weight of personal sin, or negative past experiences with the church are standing in the way of your spiritual growth.

Our Relationship With God Is Inevitably Complicated By Obstacles

Using faith to overcome adversity, find healing, and connect with the divine isn’t always that easy. Like many Christians, you may struggle with deep wounds from being raised in a strict religious environment where God was portrayed as cruel or wrathful.

You may be trying to hold on to your beliefs while navigating politics, public theology, and a secular world that seems to contradict everything you were taught. At times, you may find yourself fighting an existential battle within that leaves you wondering not just where God is—but if He’s listening at all.

Even The Faithful Have Questions

If your faith has felt shaky lately, that doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong—and it certainly isn’t a judgment from God. Many people wrestle with the same kinds of questions you’ve been holding on to.

Even the most devout Christians sometimes feel distant from God, confused by Scripture, or overwhelmed by thoughts or emotions that don’t line up with what they’ve been taught. You may be doing everything “right” and still feel alone, anxious, or spiritually disconnected.

These experiences are more common than most churches talk about, but in Christian counseling, you’ll find a space where your feelings and concerns will be validated and honored.

The Need For Support Doesn’t Mean You’re Lacking Faith

In some Christian spaces, spiritual or emotional struggles are quickly blamed on Satan. While spiritual warfare is real, blaming the enemy for every hardship can stop us from acknowledging personal accountability and achieving true healing. It may even keep us stuck, feeling helpless—or worse, ashamed.

Faith-based counseling offers another path. It’s not about dismissing spiritual truths, but about exploring your struggles honestly and with compassion. We can hold space for the possibility of temptation and the importance of personal growth.

Sometimes the most faithful thing we can do is ask hard questions and search for peace with support by our side—meaning, you don’t have to carry your burdens alone. Through Christian therapy, you can rediscover the power and joy of your faith while building a connection with God that your spirit is longing for.

Christian Counseling Is Always Tailored To Fit Your Need

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Whether you’re looking for a space to pray openly or simply want someone to talk to without judgment, our time together will be shaped around what brings you peace. Some clients find comfort in exploring Scripture or reading from Christian authors, while others prefer a more open, reflective conversation. Either way, we’ll let your voice, your boundaries, and your relationship with God guide the process.

There’s no pressure to show up a certain way. No “shoulds,” no rigid rules. We’re not here to push an agenda or “fix” you in any way. We just want to give you a space to be real—about your struggles, your questions, and your hopes.

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Christian therapy with Cedar & Oaks Counseling creates space for it all—for your doubts, your fears, and your hopes. God isn’t afraid of your questions. And neither are we. Whether you’re searching for spiritual clarity, community support, or simply a place to breathe, working with a Christian counselor is a step toward profound spiritual and emotional healing.

How My Approach To Christian Counseling Honors Faith And Psychology

In counseling sessions, our work together will draw from both spiritual wisdom and evidence-based therapeutic techniques. Depending on your needs, we may use strategies from approaches like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), mindfulness, or narrative therapy. These strategies can help you explore where you feel spiritually stuck and offer you ways to change negative thinking, relieve your emotional burden, and strengthen your connection to God—and to yourself.

As your Christian therapist, I’ll walk beside you—not ahead of you—with empathy, openness, and respect. Clients often say they feel deeply heard and genuinely understood after working together—and that’s what I want for you. Whatever you’re going through, we’ll move at your pace, holding space for both heartache and healing, always grounded in your faith.

Why Faith-Based Counseling Makes A Difference

My journey as both a Christian and a counselor shapes everything I bring into our sessions. I’ve studied theology, led small groups, done mission work, and helped found a church. At the same time, I’ve spent years supporting people as they navigate the complexities of emotions, behavior, and spiritual identity. I also understand how church teachings can be both healing and—at times—hurtful.

Research continues to show that Christian therapy and spiritual counseling can lead to meaningful breakthroughs—not just emotionally, but physically and spiritually as well. If advice from pastors or spiritual leaders hasn’t fully addressed your pain, my faith-based approach to counseling offers a deeper, more personal way to heal—and it works.

Perhaps you Still have Questions/Concerns About Christian Counseling...

Will I be judged for having doubts about my faith?

Not here. Christian counseling is a place where you can ask the hard questions—the ones you were told not to ask in church, or that others answered with fear instead of compassion. Whether your questions are theological, personal, or somewhere in between, you’ll be met with curiosity, not criticism.

You don’t need to pretend you’re okay or filter your feelings to be accepted. No matter your spiritual background, gender identity, culture, or life experience, you’re welcome to show up just as you are. In this space, honesty is sacred—and every part of your story matters.

Sometimes, I worry that I’m just a bad person.

If you've ever felt unworthy, ashamed, or convinced that you're failing yourself, your faith, or God, understand that countless other people silently carry that fear. You may have been taught that unless you follow every rule perfectly, you're at risk of being “wrong with God.”

But faith isn’t about perfection—it’s about connection, growth, and grace. Together, we can explore how cultural teachings, biblical interpretations, and personal pain may have shaped your beliefs about yourself. Christian therapy offers a space to rediscover your identity as someone fully loved by God—not in spite of your struggles, but through them.

Do I need to be on medication to work with a Christian counselor?

Not at all. While some conditions like depression or anxiety can have biological roots, medication isn’t required to begin therapy. If you're curious or unsure, we can talk through it together. If it seems appropriate, I may recommend a conversation with a trusted psychiatrist—but the decision is always yours.

Throughout our work, you’ll have support in exploring what feels manageable and aligned with both your emotional needs and your faith. The path to spiritual healing looks different for everyone, and in Christian counseling, that path is walked with care, respect, and prayerful intention.

Sometimes Healing Just Takes a Leap of Faith

If fear, doubt, or a painful past is complicating your relationship with God, Christian counseling can help free you from those heavy burdens. As your Christian counselor, I want to show you the way to peace, spiritual clarity, and a renewed sense of faith.

If this feels like the right fit, contact us for a free consultation. We offer online Christian counseling and phone sessions in Phoenix, AZ through a secure, HIPAA-compliant Telehealth platform.

You were never meant to attempt this journey alone—so let’s take this leap of faith together.